I’ve Been Married for Two Weeks–What Has it Been Like So Far?

On November 12th, my who was until recently girlfriend, fiancĂ©e, but is now wife and I got married, and on the 17th, we returned from our honeymoon. Over the past few days, we’ve been slowly adjusting to the married life: unpacking, grocery shopping, discovering who hogs covers the most (me apparently), and it’s been…a lot to get a handle of. (more…)

Life: The One About Identity and the Death Trap That is Your Early Twenties

Back when I was in high school, I wanted to become an artist–although the word “become” may not be the right word to describe that time in my life.  I wanted to “be” an artist is probably more apropos because I didn’t want to become an artist; I didn’t want to put in the effort. I wanted to just wake up one day and be one and do all of the things I imagined doing one day right now–today.

But that’s not realistic. Or possible…? I don’t think so. (more…)